Scandals, debates and econs.

Just yesterday when I should have been studying econs, I was thinking about how scary it is to meet the guy of your dreams after you get married. Not that I think that such a guy exists, I have long given up on finding the ideal guy.
I think such a situation is one of the worst kinds that you can ever find yourself in. Do you forsake for your family for the man of your dreams just because you feel he's the one and you share some kind of connection? What do you tell your husband? That you have met THE ONE?! Oh and if you have chidren, what happens to them? You cant possibly tell them that you are leaving your family for your 'happiness'. Which brings me to wonder what makes you so sure that you are going to be happy with the supposed man of your dreams knowing that you just left your family? Oh and the GUILT? Dont get me started on that.
Ah.. I just love internal debates. Extremely thought stimulating. Listing the consequences of inflation was a piece of cake after that.